Overcoming Embarrassment

Many of my students report being embarrassed about singing in front of an audience, whether it’s around the house or on stage. Yet some people can get up at karaoke and murder a popular tune without feeling a flicker of shame.

Why do so many of us feel self-conscious about the way we sound when we sing? And what can we do to get past that inner cringe? This time, we’re digging into:

• The developmental roots of self-consciousness about our voice.
• What embarrassment is trying to signal about safety, and why it’s misleading.
• The differences between speaking and singing that can make singing feel awkward.
• Choosing to reject the impulse toward embarrassment, and practice tips to help you get into that mindset. 

I’d love to know how you’ve experienced embarrassment, and if these suggestions feel helpful. Don’t hesitate to reach out via email! letters@mvmusik.com. Michèle Voillequé is a singer and a voice teacher living in Berkeley, California. 

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A transcript of this episode is available at mvmusik.com/blog/cant-wait-to-hear-you-episode-55. You can subscribe to Can’t Wait to Hear You wherever you get podcasts. If you have a question about your voice or how you’re using it, please email letters@mvmusik.com. To learn more about Michèle or to subscribe to her newsletter, visit mvmusik.com.

Our music is thanks to Katya and Ada.

The show is edited by K.O. Myers at Particulate Media.

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